ICYMI: One Simple Question That Can Make or Break a Videoconference

In Case You Missed It: This month’s ICYMI is adapted by a piece written by Andy Goodman in December 2020. In it, we explore the age-old videoconference question: camera on or camera off?

Should I turn my camera on or off? It seems like such a simple question, perhaps even trivial, but in the pursuit of engaging and productive videoconferences, you would be surprised how critical the answer can be. For some attendees, telling them to turn their cameras on can make them feel more included, more connected to other participants, and more focused on the matter at hand. But for an almost equal number, an activated camera can feel like an invasion of privacy, an unblinking spotlight that makes them physically uncomfortable and unable to concentrate fully.

We discovered this sharp divide in the research for our report, “Unmuted: What works, what doesn’t, and how we can all do better when working together online.” We also learned that there are different ways to answer this question depending on the kind of online convening you’re conducting.

Q: Should I turn my camera on or off?

A: Yes!

The kind and size of your online convening can provide useful guidelines here, but whenever possible, let your participants decide for themselves.

There was a distinct split in our survey between those who wanted to keep their video feeds on and those who preferred having them off. The On-ers noted how it improves interpersonal communication and can contribute to a greater feeling of community. The Off-ers cited how distracting these videos can be and also how they can contribute to a loss of privacy.

When I spoke with Matt Claps of Casey Family Programs, he diplomatically captured both sides of this split: “It’s part of [Casey’s] culture to recognize we’re working in someone’s personal space, so we allow people to turn off cameras and mute,” he said during our Zoom interview. “But that does present a challenge of losing the nonverbal communication you usually have when you can see the person you’re speaking with.”

With valid arguments on both sides, how should online convening leaders and facilitators handle this choice? The category and size of your convening can offer some help. Since web meetings tend to be smaller gatherings and usually thrive on high levels of interaction among the participants, these would appear to be times to ask participants to leave their videos on, and our survey respondents agreed: 65% preferred having their videos on frequently or always, and only 9% preferred them on rarely or never during web meetings.

Given a choice of five reasons for preferring videos stay on (with the option to select all that applied and also to enter other reasons not listed), respondents prioritized their reasons as follows:

1. It makes it easier to interact and communicate (84%)

2. It helps me stay focused (60%)

3. If I see other videos on, it feels rude to have mine off (59%)

4. It makes me feel less isolated and more part of a group (57%)

5. It’s required/requested by the facilitator (19%)

Among the “other” reasons respondents provided, noteworthy examples included:

  • “As a leader in my organization I feel it’s appropriate to demonstrate to others that I am ‘present.’”
  • “I want my supervisors to see that I’m engaged.”

And my personal favorite:

  • “You don’t put a paper bag on your head when you meet in person.”

Since webinars often involve larger groups, they would seem to function more smoothly with personal videos turned off, and respondents clearly leaned in this direction: only 26% preferred them on frequently or always, and even more telling, 45% — five times the number of web meetings attendees – said they rarely or never leave their video on.

Given a choice of four reasons for preferring to leave their video off (again with the option to select all that applied and also to enter other reasons not listed), respondents prioritized their reasons as follows:

1. Prefer not to worry about my appearance/attire/background (68%)

2. I’m distracted by my own video (36%)

3. It makes me self-conscious (35%)

4. It’s physically uncomfortable to have to stay within the video frame (27%)

Nearly 40% of respondents who answered this question volunteered other reasons to add to this list, with “bandwidth issues,” “concerns over privacy/security,” “not wishing to be seen multi-tasking,” and “no added value” leading the way.

RECOMMENDATIONS

This on/off debate should not be reduced to an either/or proposition. The data for web meetings strongly suggests these are occasions to ask everyone to turn their feeds on, just as the data for webinars indicates that a sizable part of your audience would prefer to leave them off for that kind of convening.

At The Goodman Center, we strive to have the best of both worlds within a single convening. When we begin a webinar (which will usually involve 20-25 participants), we ask everyone to join with their videos on so we can welcome them, and so they can see who else is attending. Once the class is underway and we begin teaching, we ask participants to turn their videos off so we can all focus on the content (which almost always involves PowerPoint slides.) When we stop periodically for questions or discussion, we ask participants to turn their videos on again so everyone can see who’s speaking.

Every request to turn video feeds on or off, however, comes with the option to decline. First and foremost, we believe that people work best and learn more when they feel comfortable and safe. In virtual settings, that feeling begins with how they want to be seen…or not. In addition, be aware that race, gender and age can also affect how individuals approach this decision:

  • While 65% of all respondents prefer to keep their videos on during meetings, a noticeable smaller percentage of people of color (55%) expressed this preference during meetings.
  • Men are more likely than women to prefer having video on during meetings by a small but statistically significant margin: 25.4% to 19.5%.
  • Younger participants are much more likely to feel it’s rude to have their videos off when others have them on when compared to older participants: 77.1% for twenty-somethings versus 49.4% for participants 60+.

Finally, we must all acknowledge the fact that participants in our meeting may be attending many online convenings that day and may simply get tired of being “on camera.” We noted many comments along these lines in our survey, and one in particular jumped out: “My boss makes us keep our video on. I’m on video 5-7 hours a day. It is exhausting. I hate looking at myself all day and fake smiling during Zoom meetings. My head hurts every day. Please make it stop.”

The least we can do is offer that option.

To learn more ways to engage audiences, register for our “Meetings for People Who Hate Meetings” Workshop on May 13 & 15.

A Brilliant Tip for Virtual Presenting on the Road

When presenting virtually, your physical set up makes a huge impact on how you are able to connect to your audience and, let’s be honest, on whether they perceive you as a professional, reliable source of information and guidance.

To make sure I am doing everything in my power to create an engaging, accessible and rich learning experience, I have set myself up for success in my office. I have dual monitors, nice lighting, a microphone etc. But what happens when I am traveling for an in-person workshop and have a virtual session planned while on my trip?

More than once I have Zoomed in from a hotel room with just my laptop (and some creative hotel furniture and lighting arrangement). I thought there was no way around the fact that if I don’t have my second monitor, I can’t see my upcoming slides or any notes. That can feel like working without a net.

So, I couldn’t wait to share a tutorial from Robbie Samuels, friend of The Goodman Center and author of the upcoming book Break Out of Boredom: Low-Tech Solutions for Highly Engaging Zoom Events

Robbie created this tutorial about how to share your powerpoint slides with your audience while accessing your presenter view- all on one monitor! I already tried it, and I am thrilled to have this tool which will enable me to present from the road more like I do from my office.

Robbie Samuels helps mission-driven organizations reimagine their virtual events. The Goodman Center got a chance to work with him for an online convening, and we loved the way he provided easy-to-follow guidelines and make the experience smooth and engaging for the speakers and audience.

Keep an eye out for his book. It is sure to be chock full of useful tips and tricks for creating better virtual events fit for 2023 and beyond.

The 21st Annual Summer Reading List

The warm and lengthening days of summer are upon us, and hopefully they bring with them some free time to curl up in the shade with a good book. If your interests tend more toward escape than work, start with

The Storyteller: Tales of Life and Music”(Dey Street Books © 2021) by Foo Fighters front man Dave Grohl.

You’ll meet iconic rock stars through Grohl’s eyes, and even if a who’s who of the music industry doesn’t necessarily appeal to you, Grohl brings such a sense of delight and child-like wonder to every tale that you can’t help but be swept along by his anecdotes. What I loved most, though, was the first section, where he shares short personal stories from his life. As advertised, they paint a “real, raw and honest portrait of an extraordinary life made up of ordinary moments.” You’ll catch yourself grinning as he learns drums by beating on pillows and share his awe at being invited to jam with Iggy Pop. And all the while, I have a hunch you’ll also be learning how to tell stories better.

Of course, if you’d like your summer reading to be a little more on point, we have 3 more suggestions for you.

How to Tell a Story: The Essential Guide to Memorable Storytelling from the Moth (Crown Publishing © 2022) by Meg Bowles, Catherine Burns, Jenifer Hixson, Sarah Austin Jenness, and Kate Tellers

Between live shows, podcasts and books, The Moth has made invaluable contributions to the art and tradition of storytelling, and their latest work is no exception. Billed as a how-to, this book delivers when it comes to guiding aspiring storytellers through the steps the Moth team has used so successfully to cultivate and share personal stories.

They illustrate their concepts with excellent examples and helpfully sum up key points at the end of each chapter. I was practically up on my feet cheering through the first chapter that talks about the power of true stories and what happens to humans when they hear or tell stories.

The writers will guide you through structuring your story so that it opens strong, makes sense throughout, keeps the listener engaged using stakes and cliffhangers, and sticks the landing. Their StorySlam how-to poster alone is worth the cost of the book. Here’s an excerpt:

 “What we do want: Hook us in. Make us care about you. Paint the scene. Clearly state your fears, desires, the dilemma. Make us invested in the outcome. Introduce the conflict. Make us worried for you. Impress us with observations that are uniquely yours. Rope us into the moment when it all goes down. Conclude as a different person: Triumphant? Defeated? Befuddled? Enlightened?…CHANGED.”

How to Zoom Your Room: Room Rater’s Ultimate Style Guide (Little, Brown & Company © 2022) by Claude Taylor & Jessie Bahrey, Illustrated by Chris Morris

The authors capitalized on our COVID captivity with their popular Twitter feed, “Room Rater,” where they critiqued the Zoom windows of professional broadcasters and pundits. Now you can follow their tips for making sure your Zoom room is a 10/10.

There is helpful advice about choosing the best lighting and angles, avoiding no-no’s like visible lampshade seams and electrical cords (heaven forfend!), and there are even several pages of recipes from former US Senator Claire McCaskill. (I’m not entirely sure why, but I might make that layered strawberry cake.)

Taylor and Bahrey seem to be telling us: make your Zoom room feel like you, and don’t take it too seriously. Frankly, I don’t think “How to Zoom Your Room” is intended as a front-to-back read, so I’d recommend it for a coffee table or your powder room. That said, the book does have a good-looking spine, so I’m putting my copy behind me in my Zoom window.

The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why it Matters (Riverhead Books © 2018), by Priya Parker

Yes, the book is four years old, but now that many of us are finally getting together again, the timing feels right to add this title to our reading list. Priya Parker (who has been popping up on several podcasts recently) is a facilitator and strategic advisor trained in group dialogue and conflict resolution. Her work is all about creating “collective meaning in modern life, one gathering a time.”

Parker reminds us that our gatherings can be memorable and even transformative, but only if we do the work beforehand to examine why we are getting together in the first place. She encourages us in “committing to a bold, sharp, purpose,” instead of just meeting out of habit.

As our organizations, families and friends navigate gathering once again, now is a great time to pick up this book, which was named a Best Business Book by NPR, Amazon, Esquire and more.

It may very well help you plan a gathering where every participant leaves thinking, “Now that was worth going to!”